Taste buds…take me back.

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Lunch was an uncomplicated dish, made by me, in my kitchen on a chilly winter’s day in Australia, it consisted of mainly grated coconut, tinned tuna, chili, and onions, it was my take on “mas huni”. As soon as the first spoonful landed on my palate I was transported back to a warm sun-filled day in the Maldives, there was nothing particularly special about that day, but it was a good day.

An early morning arrival in Male, the capital of the Maldives, had me walking with my full backpack, down the narrow traffic-clogged streets, motorbikes and scooters zip past, the air already heavy with traffic fumes and tropical heat, I was on the hunt for somewhere to eat breakfast before heading off to some local islands. There were plenty of cafes with an ocean view, they are aimed at tourists in search of the familiar, close to the jetty, the kind of cafes with inflated prices that occupy airports and food halls around the world, all with the same mundane western menus, patrons tucking in to choc chip muffins and smashed avocado melts, washed down with weak cappuccinos, eating there you could be anywhere in the world, the only thing that changes is the currency that you paid for your meal in, but with tap and go you don’t even notice that. I avoid those kinds of eateries, I make a point of finding local cuisine where ever I can.

This was not one of those cappuccino cafes, it was a local place, it wasn’t glossy, it didn’t smell of baked goods and coffee grinds. I don’t even know the name of it, but I could find it again easily, it is situated a few blocks from the area that was crowded with cashed up foreigners.

The shopfront was small, “a hole in the wall” is what they are often called, through the door I could see no table and chairs, just a warming cabinet containing an array of short eats and a drink fridge humming in the corner, short eats are small meat or vegetable pastries. A quick easy meal,  is all I needed, I wanted to buy takeaway food, that way I could continue to meander and explore a bit more of the over crowded city, it was my first time there and I only had a couple of hours between ferries. Not knowing any of the native language I was ready to point and buy whatever looked appealing. The conversation between the only two gentlemen in the store stopped abruptly when I entered. I smiled and was greeted with a welcoming smile back, I gestured towards the short eats and  one of the men shakes his head and politely said “No” and then he points to a steep narrow staircase next in the corner. It unclear why I couldn’t buy the displayed food, he told me to go up and order, I thanked them, and up I went into the unknown.

At the top of the stairs was a small bright simple restaurant with dozen or so white Formica tables, a quick glance around the room I noticed was it was all men, not one woman. It was like I had invaded their men’s club, all eyes were on me when I walk in, that is never a good feeling, and there was a clear change in the tone their conversations for a few seconds. Despite the lack of females, the place had a nice vibe. Fresh roshi was cooking on a flat skillet and the scent of wonderful spices was filling my nostrils. I smile nervously and said “Hi” to the people that acknowledge my presence. I found a table near the large open windows, with a view of the busy street below and I remove my backpack before I order food, a quick takeaway wasn’t  available.

Men in business suits occupy some tables, they go back to their boisterous conversations, cigarette smoke is wafting about their heads before it is dispersed by the fans, and drifts out the windows, newspapers, ashtrays, and teacups litter the tables, other men are hurriedly scoffing their breakfast before heading off to work.

Bewildered, I stared at the menu above the counter nothing is recognizable, a young man with a nervous smile and pen in hand is waiting patiently to take my order waiting, so I point at something in the bain-marie, I had no idea what it was. He says “fish” and I say “Yes, please” and may I also have tea, no sugar, knowing that sweet tea will be served anyway, I return to my table, to people watch, and wait for breakfast to be served.

That was the first time I ate a traditional Maldivian breakfast “Mas huni” served with a freshly made “roshi” flatbread. I had never tasted anything quite like it, not overly fishy, a nice bite chili, and subtle sweetness of coconut. YUMMY.

I love how food takes you back to the place where you discovered it for the first time, on that occasion, when you hungrily but tentatively put that first morsel of an unfamiliar meal or snack in your mouth you don’t even realise the significance of it, but then months..even years later you are thrown back to that memory with one bite, all the flavours that linger on your tongue, transport you there, to that moment, that taste, that place. Whether it be a roadside stall, restaurant, street vendor, or a family meal cooked with love, food triggers the most wonderful memories. And that is the thing with taste, it could be the simplest meal or snack, it might not be the most exciting thing you have ever eaten, just something different infused with interesting flavours that make your senses come alive.

When you give in to hunger and walked into an unknown restaurant or stroll up to a bustling street vendor, the aroma wafting from their business entices your taste buds the experience awaiting you is foreign. Language barriers mean the food is often ordered off a menu that you don’t understand, scanning it for familiar words, if you’re lucky it comes with glossy photos of food on plates swimming in sauces, bowls stacked high exotic cuisine, maybe you select your meal with the point of a finger at something that looks not too threatening in a bain-marie or faced with the fear of the unknown you just ordered the same as the person in front of you, they look like a normal person, surely they wouldn’t order anything too out of the ordinary.

Today my taste buds took me to the Maldives…tomorrow who knows where they will take me.

Ganga Aarti.. Rishikesh


Who could have even imagined that the simple act of standing in water, would evoke such emotion, yet here i was delighted, with a huge smile on my face, tears trickling down my cheeks, I feel blessed to be here.
But I am in Rishikesh, and this is the Ganges, the holiest river for Hindus, the water is cool, I close my eyes and take in the experience. The rolled up hem of my trousers is going from khaki to forest green as the water seeps in. Flowers and candles ride the ebb and flow of river, the night is heavily scented with incense, oils, sweat and a smoky haze hangs heavy in the air
It is the end of the evening, I was with hundreds of others at Triveni Ghat to see the nightly Ganga Aarti performed at dusk. Devotees from a large ashram leading the vibrant ceremony, orange robes, flowing hair and bushy beards. Beads around their necks bounce and swing as they lose themselves in the rhythmic singing and chanting , bells chime and drums keep time. The energy was invigorating, a mix of pilgrims, yoga devotees, gurus, tourists and travelers all enjoying the celebration. Your legs numb from sitting cramped up on the tiled area, shifting position and trying not to invade someone’s personal space. Fire ceremonies and embers burning, smoke wafts around us around us.
There are still crowds of people, but i feel oblivious to them, this moment is mine, tears…smile…blissful.
Nobody else in my group understood my reaction, I had no religious connection with this river, why would I weep?….but then our Hindu tour leader embraced me in a hug, he got it.

The Ganges in Rishikesh

What was I Thinking? Sri Lanka 2017

I could have ended up in one of those travel horror stories, the ones where the media scrolls your Facebook page for the appropriate photo to portray you in a certain way, making up stories about things they can only speculate. But it’s 6am and I’m safe and sound, laying on my on my bed staring at the ceiling, THANKING THE UNIVERSE for keeping me safe and reflecting on the events of last night.
It started with a balmy sunny afternoon, a bottle of vodka and a stranger with a guitar, that in itself is a dangerous combination, for me. He was the friend of the friend I was with, admittedly I had only known my friend Laki a few days. And I’m not exactly sure where I am, it was one of those ” I know a place you can stay in the jungle, it is cheap, I will take you there” so Laki and I jump in a Tuk Tuk and off we went snaking down dusty dirt roads through the jungle, to arrive at a fantastic hotel, and to find I was the only guest which didn’t really bother me.
We sat on the verandah and relaxed, slight breeze, conversation, guitar strumming, me eating rice and curry with my fingers, them surprise i refused cutlery.This was the perfect place to chill, do nothing and recharge.
Guitar Man (a professional muso) was just there filling in a couple of hours before he went to perform in a resort town on the coast a few hours drive away. His driver would arrive shortly “Do you want to come to the gig?” I had just spent the morning on a bus traveling inland …but this sounded tempting and I’m always up for an adventure.
What the fuck am I doing??? Four Sri Lankan guys and me( we had stop to pick up another muso)in a car, driving through the wonderful Sri Lankan countryside. A joint was passed around which i politely refused ,the car is filled with smoke, a combination of cigarettes and pot, and music. Sun going down, and roadside police check, they always make me nervous, pot is illegal..isn’t it? Stay calm, I have my passport ready if needed, but all good. 3hrs later we arrive at our destination.
OMG…The Sunrise by Jetwing Passikudah, this place is fancy for some one like me, but it was OH SO MUCH FUN. I danced the night away to Sri Lanka music, a bar full of well to do Sri Lankans and me… the Aussie backpacker.
2am, exhausted, it was time to embark on the journey back to Habanara. Laki had spent a good part of the evening asleep in the car after being violently ill, I assume it was a combination of alcohol and no food. And our “He doesn’t drink” Driver” was now completely smashed, as were the muso’s. And I was sober ( no alcohol since early afternoon)and now freaking out on the inside.. Is this how i die, at the hands of a drunk driver? A road statistic in Sri Lanka? The drive back seemed like the longest night of my life. Laki slept soundly beside me, the sky was filled with stars and i was consumed by fear. The car swerves to avoid sleeping dogs in the middle of the road and roadkill, he takes the corners too quickly for my liking and Im on the lookout for wild elephants that we might see on the side of the road in the headlights, please don’t let us hit an elephant. We stop at a grotty all night roadside restaurant in the middle of nowhere, staff and fellow patrons curious at the sight of me, obviously looking for my companion. We drink tea that was much too sweet and bought fresh hot roti. I grab some serviettes and wander off out the back to find a toilet, it is dark, dirty, almost doorless, and of course squat. I’m thankful for my boots( I don’t want to know what im standing in)and my long dress, it is a quick cover up if someone appears in the door way.
Dawn approaching, when we pile back in the car. Conversations in sinhalese I don’t understand, I watch out the window as my surroundings become more visible rice paddies, cows , lakes and a distance elephant grazing on the waters edge, or is that just wishful thinking . We drop of one passenger, then Laki gets delivered to his house so his wife can care for him as he is still not well, he assures me his friends will drop me back at my hotel. I felt safer when he was in the car. Now it is just me a two men that i don’t even remember the names of, a new set of fears enter my head, they chat and laugh together in the front seats. Could they be planning my demise? My stupid imagination working overtime.
Nothing to fear, winding through the jungle my hotel comes into view. I am safe. Nothing to worry about, with big smiles, they wave good bye as they drive off.
What a wild night!!!

The Boat.. Sri Lanka 2018

Hair glossy, in a perfectly smooth ponytail with a coconut shell clip and a sprig of fresh jasmine, just a hint of fragrance lingers, gold earings and necklace, a pink sari with golden brocade trim impeccably wrapped and draped like an elaborate Christmas gift, midriff exposed, strappy sandals, looking fresh as a daisy….and then there is me on the step behind her, sweat already beading on my brow, my hair twisted in messy bun, in my comfortable cargo pants, faded oversized kurta that is pulled tight across my boobs because of my backpack and my feet clad in hiking boots, looking more like a sturdy cactus than a daisy. I am being extra careful not to step on the back of her sari, as we slowly make our way down the steep narrow stairs. It is crowded and I’m fully aware I am the odd one out. The boat is for locals and very few foreigners spend nights on Neduntheevu (Delft Island)
Settling into an unyielding window seat at the back, I quickly scan for life jackets, clearly not enough, then look for a way out in case of an emergency, all windows have a wooden rail in to middle, except for a small one 5 rows in front of me. Oh well looks like i would be going down with the boat. I sit back, enjoying ocean breeze and watch the feet dangling just outside my window intrigued…How to they keep their thongs on?? and How do they manage to stay sitting where they do when the Palk Straight gets choppy and the boat gets thrown about.(I have read nightmarish stories) Luckily today the ocean isn’t to bad and I will be back in Jaffna for a late breakfast .

Sand and Razor Wire… Sri Lanka

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It is still dark outside when my alarm pierces the silence, well not quite silence, the mosquitoes that were in a buzzing frenzy last night when I went to sleep are eagerly waiting for the mozzie net to be lifted so they can attack the exposed skin, but now they hover like minuscule drones, I am tempted to sleep a little longer but the sunrise beckons and I want to be standing on the sand when the sun peeks up over the horizon on Nilaveli Beach in Sri Lanka.

The beach is a quick walk from my guesthouse, rusted razor wire tangled with vines edge one side of the path, it really is just a line in the sand separating the Navel Base, and a tranquil beach, but it is a harsh reminder that this area was part of a war zone only 8yrs before. I walk past the military checkpoint and greet the lone armed guard with cheerie Hello, he smiles and nods. Crows on the roof of the hut squawk and startle me as I trudge passed in the dry sand.

The waves send tendrils across the wet sand…filling the hoof prints of the cattle that are meandering along with a kind of nonchalance in front of me, they let out a melancholy moo. This alerts the stray dogs sleeping under the fishing boat, and they come bounding toward me with a flurry of barks but they seemed quite harmless, as they trotted along beside me.

Almost simultaneously I can hear the call for morning prayer at the mosque that rings out throughout the sleepy village via a speaker system and morning bakery tuk tuk trundling along the streets playing ” It’s A Small World” to alert it customers the it is nearing their home with freshly baked goods.

The sun finally makes an appearance sending out a golden pathway across the ocean.

As i wander back along on the beach, singing “It’s a Small World After All”